How to pronounce “distressing”(noun) in English

And it's distressing, right?

It is a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, pain, etcetera, whether the threat is real or imagined.

What's kind of distressing is the clear implication that if I were say, in a car accident, and someone were to call my insurance company -- which incidentally they do from the ambulance

But what's kind of distressing -- because it's not a big deal.

Inner focus is both self-awareness and managing our inner world, particularly our distressing emotions.