How to pronounce “separateness” in English

and the nervous ape mind to feel a sense of separateness to feel that somehow we're separate from others,

how would you-- what would be the proper way of describing love where you are acknowledge the separateness that we are separate, there are no expectations,

Because Apartheid, or Apartheid, what does it actually mean is separateness.

See that there is-- again, that's in a way the real freedom is to see that our separateness is an illusion.