What does that mean? Relational aesthetics to me, when I was in graduate school the first time, I wrote my thesis, and I studied what Indigenous aesthetic means, right?And the closest I found was actually Japanese aesthetics that I was about and aesthetics of the everyday
relationship between God the Creator creation and us right so it's a kind of relational structure that's being named rather than description of physical orsome otherwise construed
angles in the book but well I'm basically trying to say that we've got to have a god who's participatory relational inherent not an additive that occasionally dips intohistory and does nice things to nice people and burns bad people for all
the brain and the body and receives messages. Okay? And everything functions relational , holistic, nurturing, doesn't have a win-lose orientation, goes beyond
It's made by atoms, whatever you want. And relational quantum mechanics, the idea, yeah, we understand what it meant.
There was both a relational origin and a quantitative origin. The relational , I think, could be described by talking about Tom Hanks. That informed the audience I wish to try to address as I was writing the book.
So a more, you could say, holistic that's not only limited here, but that includes the emotional intelligence, the relational capacities on the one hand, but also the learning by doing on the other hand. And what it really is organizationally is bursting up.
And of course, I did. on relational databases. And Don Chamberlain and Raymond Boyce, who SQL, or S-Q-L, as a special purpose
What now? With relational practice especially, being able to work well with others, being sensitive relationally , being skillful
to manipulate. Okay, so a lot of it is going to show up there. And just to warm up here are simple definitions. If you think of relational power like purely micro think of the firm the firm is taking as given the equilibrium aggregates and it's simply checking what is the maximum
This science is described in many articles and books. What I call relational productivity-- thanks to connectedness vertically, horizontally, radially with the organization--
This science is described in many articles and books. And this is what relational productivity is about.
It is "Ms. Adventure," and that is an intentional pun, because most of my field adventures involve ridiculous things like falling in a sewer So building a giant relational database is what we're going to be-- we're already in the process of doing it-- but that's what's going to highlight those relationships.
And it's a fascinating way. It's called the relational interpretation of quantum mechanics. I've worked on it.
Well, it depends. It depends with respect to what, right? So velocity is a relational concept. It refers to two things, not to one.
So think relations rather than individual objects or properties. It's a relational thinking. Which is not new, in a sense.
It's made by atoms, whatever you want. Reality is really relational in this sense.
We know this guy. So he has a relational issues, overly ambitious, driven by ego. Now, let's say you're not this person.
So the aim of the presentation is really to talk to you about the neuroscience, and how emotional availability and the input in terms of the relational quality of the adults around the child have a powerful impact on the neurochemistry, the neurobiology. So the structural aspects of brain development, the neurochemical-- so how the hormones and chemicals respond
Because what I find is so pernicious in couples over time, because-- and this book is really about this thing, which is that our emotional life is who we are, and our relational life is who we are. And yet it sort of gets put on the sidelines, right?
My task was to write a book about aging brains and still keep nature and nurture in sight. There was both a relational origin and a quantitative origin. The relational , I think, could be described by talking about Tom Hanks.
Human beings are relational beings.
create a more relational culture we have a culture that just I mean you all are so rewarded and me too and Harville if
It might be about relational eating.
And he's painted relational color.
So this is relational color versus absolute color.
It's a relational kind of knowledge.
It could be relational , whatever it is.
into the world: The relational ecology of the home.
feel we're quite relational people and we're not very good with technology um but we feel like it like we wouldn't
They're relational needs. And when -- and in our research, what we discovered is that when these needs are being met people inevitably described
Which is not new, in a sense. Because we think relationally plenty of things in our life. A lot of things are relations in our life, are not entities.
It's made by atoms, whatever you want. Then this relationality, you don't see it microscopically, because it's a minimal thing.
Everything is seen relationally .
that differentiated and enable their survival was what's called eusociality, the development of the intrinsic relationality that has us cooperating together to survive in a world where many of the other large creatures are faster, stronger, and where the environment itself is
What now? So you become aware relationally .
either ecologically or relationally or symbiotically or nutritionally to their forbearers who filled
Okay, you can see that a markup is one such thing that the guy wouldn't like to pay up. Um, but potentially is very general is what the political scientists call relational power. Why? Because they're thinking it's affecting the relationship between A and B, but it's taking the entire environment as given.
We never talk about the relational element of it, or how being a part of a community is an essential part of happiness and well-being.
on these three complementarities. This is what I call relational productivity. A simpler way, but perhaps less accurate, is to call one leadership-- the vertical relationship-- the other one engagement-- the radial relationship between
So the way out is relationality. That's why it's called relational interpretation. Think about reality not as a collection of things that have properties, but a collection of objects
But you also have a relational self that's not only connected to other people, but it's connected to the planet.
what if we applied that to our relational health?
They might be in some kind of relational representation.
This is also as much a relational journey.
I offer retreats which are all about relational mindfulness.
breaks down but um in this new relational science we emphasize that
and so we think sharing this relational technology is really going to help teach something we all want which is
again that when you're into relational competency you actually function better as an individual
reflects what became the template for now we call it the atom by the way the atomic universe that everything in the universe is relational you're experts if you work here Google and understanding this you really are that nothing is autonomous nothing is self-sufficient nothing