So we're going to explore that a little bit. Pleasing is when you are talking to your prospect.And I use the word prospect-- I mean your prospective employers, partners, customers, clients, what have you.
bringing them to you and putting them on your desk and making sure she pleases everybody what's going to happen with pleasing apologetic Nancy anybody what's going to happen when she hits her limitNever Enough It's never enough anybody else burnout definite burnout how many of you guys relate to
Weird. Now, I hadn't told anybody but I had moderate high blood pressure for years. aesthetically pleasing but my fate is determined. The simple point.
Like, we've heard like horror stories everywhere, but it's just like kind of an adjustment to working with a bigger team and kind of pleasing more people. But it's still like just our vision and kind of what we want to make.
them are in this room and the first one is basically H pleasing apologetic Nancy and so this woman is constantly trying to please and she's trying to do the best that she can
And the French fries are quite often fried in corn oil. And pleasingly, even the box now typically has a corn based wax on the coating. That acre of land that my best friend and I grew in the year after college was not a very big plot.
You keep on bending over backwards for others. You keep on people pleasing . And it happens across all areas-- at work, at home, with your friends.
And we used to have all these battles. I'm pleasing my two, giant kids.
so the first line in your book is the single dream and drive of my life has was people-pleasing and he had none he has none of that so he's way better in every way than I ever was
And therefore, we could prove that they satisfy several properties that are considered to be eye pleasing . And these properties involve invariants to similarity transformations and roundness and smoothness
You don't speak your mind because it might upset them, or it might not be something they want to hear, even though it would benefit them. So that's pleasing . That is not the same as serving. Remember, with serving, we have our prospects' highest interest at heart.
We need to be willing to tell them something that would be of benefit to them, even if it may not be well received. So the distinction between pleasing and serving is what I want to demonstrate in my next example. So one of my other clients, Danielle, is a scientist by training.
She was able to get to the real challenges of her prospects and offer her solutions if she saw fit. So Danielle went from pleasing to serving. So in this first guiding principle-- I am not selling, I am serving-- we saw how you go from selling to serving,
I like the intensity. I like the people-pleasing . I'm going to become a chef.
Get over it. But it's just stuff like that, where men want to try and tell us how we should speak differently that would be more pleasing to them. And it's just there-- This ain't for you.
sergeant in us we have some sort of repressive Charlie in us right we have some sort of um pleasing Nancy inside of us and we have some sort of narcissistic Priscilla inside of us right it just
It might be a small number but with just a fantasy that was between friends turned into something where people buy. This was something very pleasing . Up to now, we still want as many people as possible to enjoy eating through Takumen.
because that is truth. That is what is pleasing to God, however we may know. And that is the only way we can find meaning and fulfillment in our lives.
And whether we were talking about porn, whether we were talking about pop, whether we were talking about fashion, what girls were learning was that pleasing others was more important than their own pleasure, that being desirable was more important than understanding their desire, that appearing sexy was more important than understanding their own sexuality.
You walk out, and everything that I had never found in Mumbai I got in Denver. It was pleasing to the eyes, the air is so beautiful, and the mountains all around-- a very beautiful place. You know, in life, everybody has dreams, right?
find aesthetically pleasing and inspiring.
Second P-- pleasing .
Everything is around pleasing the customer because the transaction exists.
And a pleasing place to go and bump into people.
It's not aesthetically pleasing to most, but-- I think the photo, in the photo she should be holding the Polaroid as well.
that is pleasing to God and and that's what I'm searching for but not the
the instantaneous relationships between notes are pleasing , right?
Or if they're not pleasing , they resolve in a way that's pleasing .
And we really liked the idea of facing each other while we were onstage. It's just like really aesthetically pleasing . It sounds like there's like a perfect symmetry-- Right.
This ceviche is just so crowd pleasing because it hits all the marks of those flavor qualities.
To which the kind of actually quite pleasing and standard response is oh, gosh, that's interesting.
You don't have to worry about pleasing others anymore.
Never Enough It's never enough anybody else burnout definite burnout how many of you guys relate to this story because I know I was pleasing apologetic Nancy I tried to do that my whole life with all of my family that was that that was all about pleasing Society ideals expectations what I should be I was a cosmetic
that can be a bit of people-pleasing situation.
respected as being one of the most pleasing places to work in.
So it's essentially a way of pleasing shareholders, pleasing activist investors, pleasing consumers, and hopefully attracting talent as well, which is
I was so focused on pleasing them.
that happens when it's not about pleasing your venture capitalists, or about money, or sort of the Silicon Valley.
the goal appears to be pleasing an authority figure with a depth of knowledge. They're not tenacious; they give up much more easily and that's probably the reason why they get
that I'm trying to advocate for something like people pleasing , or denying one's needs.
so the first line in your book is the single dream and drive of my life has to parent him better he has no people-pleasing skills which growing up
But I wanted to buy a painting that was aesthetically pleasing , and that was probably going to be a successful investment--
So balance is really all about everything coming together in a pleasing composition, and there's so much-- that work that comes into that from all the other things we
this story because I know I was pleasing apologetic Nancy I tried to do that my whole life with all of my family that was that that was all about pleasing Society ideals expectations what I should be I was a cosmetic dentist um and not just a cosmetic dentist I had high-profile clients that flew in from all over the world to come
dentist um and not just a cosmetic dentist I had high-profile clients that flew in from all over the world to come and see my practice in Chicago talk about pleasing yeah but it just leaves you burnt out it leaves you resentful and God forbid you have children then you're just going bat
And Einstein himself felt that the static model was very aesthetically pleasing .
So he conjured up something that was not aesthetically pleasing , by his own admission.
And then you get out and you have a pleasing place to walk.
flavors and has a variety of textures that make it extremely pleasing .
start state to get to um um it's aesthetically pleasing