to me because um I don't hold it against folks on the left who have been like grudging or oppositional I think big tent means big tent, right? You have to be a big tent.Even when I disagree, I just think it's also important to think about
I want you to think about high-growth economies versus high-quality or productive economies. They're oppositional . And there's a reason. One is creating standards.
There's hundreds of other ones. It's almost oppositional , right?
to undercut the law of two the law of two is always antagonistic oppositional competitive the Mind chooses sides within a nanc once you give people a
What happens when there are two-- maybe engineers can help me. If there are two oppositional qualities, what? Cognitive dissonance. There's cognitive dissonance, right?
And if attachment is weak in any or all of these areas, you will see evidence of that in the child's defiance. It's not the only reason a child might be chronically oppositional or defiant. But if you have a child, when I get a call for coaching, or in our membership when somebody gets on.
Second, I argue that Germanyís division ran deeper than as realized, penetrating mentalities. Germanyís, Germans rapidly formed oppositional identities within a few years as Easterners and Westerners attributing entirely different values in characteristics to people on each side. So although the actual shape of the border was in extreme flux people perceived it to be a fete accompli and it, sort of, preemptively anticipating the borders a fete accompli,
you can't have any dealings with anybody else from a different background, so it can be a bubble. It can be a barrier of division. Your religion is so different from anybody else's that you're actually in an oppositional tension. It can be a bomb of destruction, you know, you feel like you need to dominate people from other backgrounds, violently. Or, it can be a bridge of cooperation. The 21st century
Is there some type of pull that they have in particular? And he confessed that everybody in that room had an immediate sense of-- there was this oppositional tension, because on the one hand,
in the world of work are unraveling the stupid things that I've said or that somebody else has said. From one view, these two things could be viewed as a paradox and both seemingly oppositional to each other yet coexisting at the same time.
But what we've come to learn through our research here at Russell Reynolds is that actually what is most dispositive and predictive of success is not just leaders who-- yes, those traits can be very important depending upon the context-- but equally important is the ability to demonstrate seemingly oppositional kinds of leadership. So being connecting, vulnerable, more reluctant at times, more pragmatic at times, quieter, more introverted
between trauma and mental health. So what we were seeing was a lot of young boys, African-American boys, girls, black and brown, who had diagnoses of oppositional defiant disorder, or ADHD, attention deficit disorder, or behavioral disorders, antisocial personality disorders, when in fact they had significant trauma histories.
He was born left handed, but then was forced to be right handed, so it's terrible. The poor historian. She was egocentric, vulgar, oppositional , and underhanded. And she was sent to a correctional institution.
You're going to see me trying to figure out how to engage a reluctant reader. You're going to see me figuring out how to support an English language learner in literary analysis, how to get a kid with oppositional defiance disorder to stay in the classroom and learn and feel valued.