And the time in Kolkata when, in the '80s when it rained-- and of course, every family is cursing the British. Aye , Victorian drainage, age or no, this is why we are all flooded.British left many years ago.
Why is this mission so important to you? Aye , this question is very dear to my heart for many reasons.First, unfortunately, Latin America is a region where there are still profound gender disparities.
So you OK if I show this, Finlay? Aye , yes. So that's what brought Finlay here somehow.It's a domino effect.
I've never heard of a member of the mafia who ever finished high school. "Aye , Carmillo." Aye , Carmillo Camacho.
Yo tengo 48 años y todos los días aprendo cosas. Ayer había un cáterin en Masterchef, unas zanahorias a la naranjas que viene en una bolsa, esa que viene ya horrorosa de bote.
So, without further ado, Ayelet. Ayelet: You gotta tell me what's up with the guy eating his lunch over there. That's just, we're just all gonna pretend we're not noticing?
we're just all gonna pretend we're not noticing? Ayelet: Ah, I get it, Hi. Hi there actually. So thank you so much for inviting me. I've always wanted to eat in your cafeteria ever since I saw that Google chef wipe out so dramatically on Top Chef. Did you guys see that? She seemed really nice, her food
that might be fun. so, here's some of the things, I went and searched that people said about me in the comments section. "Yet another article that reinforces my impression that Ayelet Waldman is in laymen's terms a freak! . I hope Salon's remittance goes directly into some kind of trust fund to the poor kid's future psychotherapy." . Here's another one; "Please, with lots of Es, please, please take her away! She's ruined
Female audience member: I just have to say one thing. Ayelet: Yeah. Female audience member: We were talking about your coming here someone mentioned that incident and then a person who's probably here said, "I love her husband more than kids!" . Ayelet. Well you know, it's interesting, because that is, I just, just as an aside that, I mean that's really what it's about. He's a really great guy, and moreover he's like,
Ayelet: Yeah. Female audience member: We were talking about your coming here someone mentioned that incident and then a person who's probably here said, "I love her husband more than kids!" . Ayelet. Well you know, it's interesting, because that is, I just, just as an aside that, I mean that's really what it's about. He's a really great guy, and moreover he's like, he is an absolute 50% share in the domestic life of our family. So after this essay came out in the New York Times and I did not submit it to the New York Times, they picked it up.
: So since the ensuing time is the vitriol is less frequent? Ayelet: Against me, personally? Yeah. Weirdly, yes. Um, well yes and no. I mean Google just did put Michael and me on named us third most loathsome literary couple or Gawker, not Google, the third most loathsome literary couple. Which I actually, was kind of pissed off about, because, why, why are we only third, why did, what did Jonathan Safran Foer and Nicole Krauss
: It's free. It's comfortable. Ayelet: It's free. Excellent. I don't notice any Google attire in my schwag bag, but I don't know. Fleece vest. Anybody else? : So I was not a mother when your article came out so I don't know the controversy.
: So I was not a mother when your article came out so I don't know the controversy. Ayelet: Uh. Huh. : Of course I'll go look it up when I get back. What were people so upset about. You read that intro and so. Ayelet: Why, why do they get so angry?
Ayelet: Uh. Huh. : Of course I'll go look it up when I get back. What were people so upset about. You read that intro and so. Ayelet: Why, why do they get so angry? : What were they so angry about?
: What were they so angry about? Ayelet. You know, it's so interesting, I think it, I had a conversation with a friend of mine's who's a, writes for the magazine section of the New York Times named Lisa Belkin. And she wrote a piece oh probably almost a decade ago, maybe 6 or 7 years ago about, it was a cover magazine piece about um, privileged mostly white women going back to work; leaving
: I just wanted to ask you sort of a man related, your husband Mike writes essays about men and. Ayelet: Fatherhood. Fatherhood. Does he get any of the same kind of? Ayelet. Oh, no! He's God incarnate. Michael writes, it's the same this as like, well he is a father, right? My, my favorite story is when he's standing on line in a cafe, he's
Ayelet: Fatherhood. Fatherhood. Does he get any of the same kind of? Ayelet. Oh, no! He's God incarnate. Michael writes, it's the same this as like, well he is a father, right? My, my favorite story is when he's standing on line in a cafe, he's got the baby in a baby Bjorn and he's just getting coffee. That's all he's doing. Not paying attention to that baby, he is getting coffee, right? Getting coffee. He might even
the listservs, the original listservs, to be more civil was because people were under their real names. Ayelet: Yeah. Ayelet: Yeah. The New York Times, well see the New York Times letters were primarily positive. They were overwhelmingly positive, really. The stuff that you, that actually went to the New York Times, where you have to sign your name, was mostly fan mail. Its the stuff that comes to me that could be anonymous that was so loathsome. And the stuff that
Yes. : So, I'm just curious about that. The essay, the problem with that. Ayelet: Um hmm. : Was it that you didn't love your kids enough? Ayelet: Well no it was.
Ayelet: Um hmm. : Was it that you didn't love your kids enough? Ayelet: Well no it was. : Or was it you loved your husband too much?
: Or was it you loved your husband too much? Ayelet: That bothered people, in particular? : Yeah, what was the thing that bugged 'em?
: Yeah, what was the thing that bugged 'em? Ayelet. Well, I mean I think there was one line that was particularly problematic. I had just finished writing this book called Love and Other Impossible Pursuits, the one that's going to be a movie staring Natalie, it is a movie staring Natalie Portman, out sometime before the end of the year in your local theater. It will probably be there for
: by Sandra Bullock. Ayelet: Yes, that too, but it's. : movie? Ayelet: It's a great movie too, do both, do both, great movie. Um, what was I saying?
: The one sentence. Ayelet: Oh, so the one sentence, so I had just finished this book and and that's the book about a woman who's baby dies of SIDS. And I had been immersed for a year in this world of like, of maternal grief. What does it feel like when your baby dies. And what I wrote in that essay was that while I could image, like I could, I could run a movie,
I always run these movies in my head, sort of the worst case scenario movies and all these terrible things that happen, you know every time my kid goes on a bike ride I'm Ayelet: I mean I think "The Simpsons" is the national treasure too, but do I feel like
¿Es algo que evaluáis dentro de los procesos de performance en la compañía? Y ayer salió, pues, un acuerdo con la industria y el gobierno, donde básicamente es un modelo donde los mensajeros siguen
So what we did is we just kind of did a shotgun approach to see what kind of vomeronasal receptor genes were present in lemurs, and particularly mouse lemurs. Here's an aye -aye and a black and white ruffed lemur, ring-tailed lemur.
¿Es algo que evaluáis dentro de los procesos de performance en la compañía? Ocurrió también ayer. Ayer, bueno, fue un día de muchas cosas.
And so for people to be able to reproduce their own food, young Lebanese people, to reproduce their own food the way their mother cooked it, So from Ayesha-- Anissa, thanks so much for today.
I'm Kane Grogan, and I run our customer service department, some of our event stuff, and sales, wholesale, stuff like that. I'm Jeff Ayers. I run our brand new broadcasting division, and I write and edit and produce our weekly podcast, "Fueled by Death Cast." My name is Alyssa Hardy, and I'm the content manager for Death Wish.
So welcome to Ruha. And I have Ayesha over there-- Ayesha Keller. She is Scottish, so she was born in Edinburgh in '89.
It's hard, because the only portrayal of Harley's voice is super, super high-pitched and animated and comical. But when you're doing a David Ayer film, there's going to be really deep, gritty parts as well. So we needed to find an in-between ground.
Here's another example where you see the same thing. Thank you, Ayellet, for a wonderful talk.
We're going to hear about that NGO specifically also a bit. And actually, Ayesha also spent a year on the ground in Greece. It's a very practical experience.
It's a very practical experience. So I'm going hand it over to Ayesha to please tell us about your story. Thank you very much, Raphael.
And we just need to have the will to implement them. Thank you, Ayesha. I would like to thank everyone to show up again, once more. My name is Ruha Said.
shoes, anybody? Thank you. : He can't. Ayelet: No, I know, it's a heartbreak. Those were more innocent times before the proliferation of Mommy blogs and online parenting magazines. Andy Lamont was still over at Mothers Who Think and Salon. Do you remember those long-ago days when she was blogging about her baby
Michael Chabon for me. I'll never read another of his books, ever! I won't be able to, just thinking of him married to her makes me ill!" . And another personal favorite, "I always need to take a shower after I read Ayelet Waldman's pieces." And I assume that he's going to go into the shower and beat off because he's so excited about me maybe not. Um, but you know look, just even reading those now, as I'm doing it as a joke, but I'm still gives me this, kind of like ah, in my stomach and I think really, really
Ayelet: Yes, that too, but it's. : movie? Ayelet: It's a great movie too, do both, do both, great movie. Um, what was I saying? : The one sentence.
The man's body jumped, and he cried out. And the woman who's married to Michael Chabon-- she's a novelist named Ayelet Waldman.
And then we couldn't feel secure anymore. And I was lucky in Greece to meet people like Raquel and Ayesha.
And then we couldn't feel secure anymore. Yeah. If I can turn it to Ayesha, and maybe ask you a couple of questions--
There's a chapter on-- anybody here from Google Geo? There's like a whole chapter on Google, ayeh.
There's my point. What happened was two friends of mine were putting together this literary anthology that nobody was going to read and they, it was all about motherhood and they called me and said, alright Ayelet, we've got mothers writing about divorce, and we've got mothers writing about having twins and we've got mothers writing about breast cancer, but we don't have any mother writing about sex. And since you're the only person we know that's having any you have to write about it. And, um I decided that I would for
saw me through 6 months of pumping. So, I'm not saying we need to stop, you know, joining in these motherhood online communities and I am just begging, and I know what's going to happen is Gawker will see this little video and they'll be like oh Ayelet Waldman, just like Rodney King why can't we all just get along. But really, why can't we all just get along? Um so with that I'm just going to open for comments. If you're my mother you can criticize me, if you're not my mother you can criticize me too. Questions.
See-- see-saw! See-saw-- see-saw-- see-saw-- see-saw-- see-saw-- see-saw-- aye !
¿Es algo que evaluáis dentro de los procesos de performance en la compañía? Bueno, no sé si visteis la noticia, pero ayer vendimos toda la región de Latam que ha sido una decisión-- ÁLVARO MORAN: Enhorabuena.
And I didn't know this until I looked on your website, but the Ayesha Curry book as well.
Okay so, today we are very fortunate to have Ayelet Waldman here with us to speak. Ayelet is the author of New York Times best seller "Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities and Occasional Moments of Grace"; "Love and Other Impossible Pursuits", "Daughter's Keeper" and the "Mommy-Track Mysteries". Her personal essays have been published in
world in countries such as England and Thailand, the Netherlands and China, Russia and Israel. So, without further ado, Ayelet. Ayelet: You gotta tell me what's up with the guy eating his lunch over there. That's just,