complexity of both of the of we think what how we construct our kind of cultural and linguistic sense of politeness and how it was just not matched with what i was seeing in china and actually for this google audienceI've been thinking I don't know how this works in in translation but you know what would you do if if you were going
kind of translation and how do you figure out when you're supposed to put them in or out if you have a machine like politeness or love or romance so
What's the difference between the psychiatrist who's simply pushing more and more drugs and more and more palliatives on his client, but not It is not exaggerated politeness or obedience.
'Cause the default incentive of the crowd is to conform to some kind of narrative. I feel like the bureaucracy needs politeness and civility and paperwork to function.
Chinese linguist Qaeda John says that using a please as in please pass the salt actually has the opposite effect of politeness here in China the Chinese way of being polite to each other with words is to shorten the social distance between you and saying please serves to insert a kind of buffer or space
things about Jane Austin's books and all the Regency books is people never really say what they mean you know there's a euphemism for everything uh and politeness is absolutely Paramount so uh so I thought it would be funny if if that applied to zombies as well anyway there was suddenly a terrible shriek not unlike that which Hogs make
'Cause the default incentive of the crowd is to conform to some kind of narrative. I feel like there's a lot of politeness in the Soviet Union.
So they had to unscramble sentences and make them into proper sentences, four or five words. But some of the sentences had words relating to politeness and some of the sentences, for other participants in other condition, those words relating to rudeness, and then there was a control group with just neutral words.
That was nice. Only hopefully, they don't say that and they don't look like that. Because there's this whole thing called-- you know-- politeness and manners and being socially appropriate when it matters. If you are somebody who really needs to feel an emotional connection-- some sort of emotional tie-in-- before you really find that you experience
to put your head down to text, because everybody has their phone and everybody's going to be texting at dinner. So the Rule of Three is a kind of new politeness about when you can let your attention go down. So what is the result of the Rule of Three?
So that's what you were onto, really. That's why is never good for you continues the politeness . So what happens is a cognitive synergy.
So what happens is a cognitive synergy. At the both time we're experiencing rudeness and politeness , and I think that's what gives it its little frisson. Humor needs a target.
trying to understand you know not being a nit picker you know you wouldn't want to do it at work don't do it at home and and you know again bringing the the politeness of our career life uh into family and just remembering to say thank you certainly helps us day to day in getting more 50 50.
'Cause the default incentive of the crowd is to conform to some kind of narrative. - And what's probably the most terrifying to me is that that politeness is just theatrical.
And one of the reasons that it was that people were encouraged to mix socially in a way that they otherwise normally wouldn't. So there was a convention of politeness in coffee houses and a convention that you would leave distinctions of social class behind as you entered there.
comments they make, some of the honesty and authenticity children have-- I wonder whether we beat it out of their system in the name of socializing, in the name of politeness , in the name of what you call emotional intelligence, in the name of everything else. I wonder we try to focus them more on trying to be smart, according to all standards, but let go of the common sense
deliberate ambiguity. Deliberate ambiguity is an advanced tool of ownership design. When ownership is ambiguous, airlines know that people mostly fall back on politeness and good manners, not law and rules. We all try to work it out between ourselves.
They're actually just called nasal clicks. Oh, yeah, there's also politeness that you could throw onto these things.
Yeah. Right. At their jobs. And I think it's the fact that you are trying to keep a lid on that politeness , even when, underneath, you may feel anything but,
tea, drinking it, they'd invite us over. There was even a specific sipping sound that we were expected to make as a sign of politeness . Men holding hands in that part of the world is a sign of friendship, but coming from Indiana it wasn't something I was used to seeing every day.
'Cause the default incentive of the crowd is to conform to some kind of narrative. And when enough of that is happening, again, with a corporate polite speak, there's something about politeness that's really dangerous.
see the door open, and a creepy person is standing inside, and get in out of politeness .