How to pronounce “offence” in English

Is that only because they are females? In many cases, murders are victims until they committed murder whether it is spontaneous or planned. It looks unfair to me that they have to suffer heavy sentence when they are the one victimized for most of the timeThere are still lacking understandings on victims Therefore, contingent act of offence for self-defence is not acceptedMen oriented thoughts are still prevalent in our society whether you acknowledge or not