And occasionally, some of the trainers get killed, because they're so frustrated. They lash out . They get angry and upset, just like we would if we were in a situation of deprivation, if we were in solitary confinement. What's amazing is so many kids and other people have responded, Sea World stock, after one documentary was aired, has gone down.
And then they answer. And then you lash out . And you're like, weren't you going to ask me the question?
It's OK if you get angry, just don't express it. Don't lash out on people. The Epicureans, I think, add to the mix because they gave us this impression that happiness and sadness are opposites.
And there's no conversation about what is the root cause of what's going on with these young men and men that lead to an inability to deal with their frustrations and then lash out in these horrendous ways. Next slide. So I was trying to figure out how I was going to build this piece, what I was going to do,
the sample for each other. Because what happens when you lash out is you tend to engage in tit for tat escalations of violence.
They have no way and no filter of how to assess and understand what's really happening. And that's why they lash out . And so that's why Brazilian jiu-jitsu is what we teach.
I love to think of ways to implement it so that more kids who need this way of thinking can benefit from it. and that makes them want to lash out violently.
I love to think of ways to implement it so that more kids who need this way of thinking can benefit from it. It makes you want to hide or lash out , both of which are not going to get you, in the long run, where you want to be.
Well, we wanted to look at self-control in a different domain, and that is the domain of aggression. And sometimes when you get angry at people you want to lash out at them, and that may not be a good strategy for a number of reasons, and it takes self-control to not do that.
the sample for each other. But they were more able to control their impulses to lash out .
everybody does dumb things in college everybody does dumb things in high school everybody knows about it and everybody says yeah they were young a small percentage of just really angry people that can lash out people but I mean if the woman took her own
This is Ireland. We support trans people in this country. I don't always-- sometimes, I do lash out .
who come with very, very different training, very, very different way of thinking about it they've started to be able to find new kinds, And people talk a lot about their instantaneous -- instantaneous reactions to just sort of lash out and crush a roach.
And actually when I was in New York about a week ago, my guest was Brandon Stanton. And I had a choice in that moment-- I could deal with it, or I could lash out to the only possible object
So it's not easy. But when you're feeling anger or you're feeling depressed, don't just act on it and mope or lash out . But why? Ask yourself why.
And the likelihood that they're going to do something completely out of the box is very rare, although you can still have very good executives. Yeah. Yeah, with the new iOS, I thought that was interesting because it was almost-- I think it's one of the steps in grieving, to lash out
And he was a very sensitive guy, and he cried a lot. But over time, because he had PTSD and various trauma that he'd experienced, he had nightmares and flashbacks, and he would sometimes lash out at her, slapping her, a black eye here and there, shoving her, strange rages.