How to pronounce “death by a thousand cuts” in English

people I I that I meet say things that they think are the right thing to say but that couldn't be more wrong you know like this is in your book these of likedeath by a Thousand Cuts of white white friends who are saying things to her like one of my favorite lines in the book is when Ruth narrates and sayswhite people don't mean half the stupid things that come out of their mouth you know and that's great because it it is true and and honestly people of color