How to pronounce “asters” in English

very well-mannered as a child and um that's something else that you find in the south probably it all started with the withthe Asters you know in the Vanderbilts in New York City in um the Gilded Age when Society was constructed of um layers upon layers upon layers ofetiquette I mean you you didn't call somebody on the phone or you didn't text them and say let's go grab lunch you would have your your person um send your